We have been in the process of adopting again for what feels like a very long time. John and I have been so blessed through the adoption of our oldest child, John Isaac, that we felt completely compelled to adopt again. There are so many children without parents, and we feel privileged beyond measure.
The word "adoption" holds so much meaning for John and I. It means family, provision, love, & care...forever. It is the same beautiful word used to describe God's accepting of us as His children. (Galatians 4:4-6) How is it that I never recognized that before we adopted John Isaac? I absolutely believe that God had purposed to teach me much, much more about Himself through the adoption of our first child.
We have had a number of reasons to place our adoption on hold since beginning the process in January of 2009. However, we are to the point where our dossier is being sent to China! We have not received confirmation that we are logged in the system in China, but we are hopeful that it is forthcoming. Below is a picture of John carrying our completed documents. He looks happy and relieved. I felt the same way.

From this point, we will be receiving, on a monthly basis, a shared list of children with special needs who are eligible to be adopted. There are a number of special needs that our family has been approved for in our home study. When a child on the list has special needs that meet those which we are approved for, we can request further information on that child. We will then have the information reviewed by a local pediatrician and another pediatrician who has had further training in assessing medical information in international adoptions. That process, from the time we request the referral information until we have an assessment of the information, should take about 24 hours. If we decide that our family is able to well care for that child, then we would let our caseworker know. Hopefully, we would be able to adopt that child, however, if another family were to make their request before us, we would have to wait for the next list and complete the process of requesting information on another child. Once we officially accept a referral for a child, we can expect to travel in approximately 6 months. Realistically, we travel whenever the Chinese government invites us to do so, so we can't be certain of the 6 months either.
I have talked with families who have adopted the first child that they made an informational request about, and I have spoken with others who have been unable to do so. John and I are really praying for wisdom. Choosing a child from the list presents itself as a daunting task in light of the fact that each of those children is in need of a family.
In addition, at this moment in time, we are serious about taking our current children with us when we travel to China. Several people have said they will travel with us. That is a wonderful blessing, and we are very thankful! We are intending to take the boys on a plane trip in the next few months as a trial-run and to familiarize them with the airport, airplane, flying, and landing that are certain to happen on a trip to China. I am so hopeful that they will do well on such a trip. I've spoken with another mother who took her younger children on the trip to adopt their fourth and fifth children. She assured me that it is difficult, but that it is absolutely doable and an experience well worth exposing the boys to. I have to admit I am a bit nervous, but who wouldn't be!?!?!
Please pray that John and I will be wise in selecting a child. Pray for our boys, that they will do well on such a trip, that they will adjust easily to a new sibling, and that they will be safe when we travel. Please pray for our child in China. Pray that he or she is safe, developing well, and being nurtured as best he or she can be in that situation. Also, please pray for the other 142,999,999 children who are waiting for parents. I truly can't imagine that feeling, and, for that, I am absolutely thankful.