It's been forever since I have posted to my blog! Since the last post we have adopted our son, Graham, and moved to Bardstown. A puppy is in the works, and I'm now homeschooling three out of four sons.
What could possibly lead me to blog after all of this time?
Well, it is frustration over articles I have recently read, like this one, (http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303759604579093231122420774.html) concerning different topics in education in America. I am dumbfounded every time I read this type of article. I am completely mystified by the angles from which people attempt to understand why children are struggling with some of the most basic academic skills.
I am not an education expert. I don't have a degree in education. I haven't logged hours on end in the classroom. I have not visited any seminars on methods of education, educational philosophies, or educational psychology. I feel, however, that I am relatively certain about the things that are causing student struggles. I will attempt to list them below.
1. FAMILIES ARE FALLING APART!
So many children come from broken homes. When life is turned upside down, education tends to fall to the wayside. This is not true in every instance, but it is true for many. There exist custody agreements which require children to spend every other night at a different parent's home. How in the world can a child stay organized and focused on learning when living under such hectic conditions?
There is also the emotional toll that divorce takes on children. In talking with children from divorced parents, one can clearly see that they often experience immense grief over the loss of their family unit...sometimes over the loss of one of their parents.
In addition, many single parents are forced to work more than one job. In many cases, just arranging childcare can be a huge task. Sometimes divorced parents don't get along well. Sometimes there are new spouses and children involved...on both sides. Who knows how deeply divorce impacts the education of children in America?
This is not easily fixed.
2. TECHNOLOGY: THROWING OUT THE BABY WHILE KEEPING THE BATHWATER
At some point in recent history, Americans have decided that our children need to be exposed to technology at an early age. We want mastery! We have sought this believing that somehow it will make our children brighter and well-adjusted for their future endeavors.
In effect, we believe that teaching kids how to punch buttons on a calculator is more important and will create greater proficiency in mathematical skills than teaching them how to actually understand and manipulate numbers with pencil and paper using their brain. We think that typing skills are more valuable than understanding rules of grammar and penmanship.
I'll NEVER understand the trade-off!
Learning to search for information on the internet and typing are skills
that can easily be picked up once students understand how to write and
spell well. Children who really understand arithmetic can easily be taught to use a calculator at a later date. They will, most likely, use it correctly as they will better understand the type of answer that they should expect from a given problem.
Out of interest, I called our local school system to find out when students are first exposed to calculators, and when they are allowed to begin using calculators to complete mathematics assignments. I was informed, by a staff member at the school, that students are exposed to calculators as early as kindergarten, and that they are allowed to use calculators to complete math work throughout elementary school.
Another gut-wrenching finding I have recently made is that schools, ever competing to be the best, have allowed high school students to add a program to their calculator called Zoom Math. More information about this product can be found by visiting this (http://www.zoommath.com) website. From what I understand this product completely works math problems (pre-algebra through calculus) step-by-step on the screen of the calculator, so students need only copy what is shown on the calculator screen onto their paper.
If your local high school significantly increased it's math proficiency level in the past year or two, I would check to see if they are playing the system with this type of application. While test results can make schools look much better at teaching math, the reality is that many schools are getting better at teaching students to use a calculator.
When we make children dependent on calculators, we handicap them for life!
3. MEMORIZATION IS FOR THE BIRDS!
In Kentucky, in large part because of calculator dependency, we graduate students who use a calculator to find the product of 6x7. Contrary to what you might believe, these students are not "lower-level" students. No, some of these students can be found in Kentucky's AP Calculus and Statistics classes.
Last month I was informed, by a teacher, that she has had to stop writing in cursive on the board as her students in the ninth grade and below have not been expected to learn cursive writing.
Many early skills are affected by placing little emphasis on memorization and practice. One of the most important is learning to spell words correctly. Many schools no longer require correct spelling for student writing assignments. Some elementary schools no longer give spelling tests. For this reason, many students do not think that correct spelling matters.
Additionally, many schools have discontinued grammar lessons altogether. How is it that we expect students to learn to write well if we don't teach them the basic tools for understanding word usage?
Actual memorization of historical dates seems to be sporadic. Many students are unable to put major, historical events in order.
4. ABOVE ALL, IT MUST BE FUN!
Recently, I spoke with a bright group of second and third grade students who
told me that their favorite thing about school was doing science
experiments. That makes sense to me. Science is interesting. After listening to them describe the fun things that they
did in class, I asked them if they used the scientific method. They
looked confused by my question. They didn't know about the scientific method.
Another puzzling situation is that, more often than not, high schools have traded in assigned reading of classic literature for books like The Hunger Games.
Though this series is somewhat interesting, it has been assigned a
reading level of seven, and, clearly, should not be seen as challenging
material for high school students.
Have you seen the video linked below on YouTube? It is supposed to be funny, and I do laugh until I cry each time I watch it. Still, the limited glimpse it provides into the real expectations placed on many teachers to both differentiate instruction and make learning fun is ultimately sad. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kn8faeuQjE0
5. THEIR HANDS ARE TIED!
It seems that, with little parent support, constant pressure to compete, and ever increasing legislative demands, teachers find themselves in the position of just trying to get students to participate. Given what a teacher is expected to teach in a school year, they do not have time to go back to re-teach those things that should have been taught at a lower grade level.
What is the obvious solution when faced with students who can't manipulate fractions but need to know algebra skills? Well, teachers, like one I recently encountered, do not put problems with fractions on tests or quizzes for their ninth grade algebra classes. This teacher is accountable for teaching and testing algebra skills, but I wonder when those high school students will ever learn how to work with fractions, decimals, percentages, etc...?
Additionally, teachers' hands are tied concerning discipline for undesirable student behavior toward the teacher, other students, and in relation to work assignments. This inevitably affects the learning environment.
I know that concerned parents who closely monitor what their children are being taught, both academically and behaviorally, can supplement the skills that they deem to be important for their children to learn. I am just concerned. I am concerned that, on the whole, what we have traditionally wanted students to learn is being replaced, in many public schools, by new academic priorities and methods of teaching, often dictated to teachers, that cause students to struggle. Then, we are confused when national tests show that, these days, nearly half of eighth-graders are unable to put three fractions in order by size.
Saturday, September 28, 2013
Thursday, September 26, 2013
It's Been So Long...
from the beginning of 2012...
It has been so long since I have blogged. It seems like the past six months have been so...very...busy!
It has been so long since I have blogged. It seems like the past six months have been so...very...busy!
In December, I traveled with dear friends to China to bring home our fourth son, Graham. It was an amazing trip! God was so very good to us, and He showed Himself on numerous occasions! We are so blessed to have such wonderful friends, and I am so very thankful to have returned home with our sweet one before Christmas!
Speaking of which...I feel like I missed Christmas this year! :( I know I didn't really, but I think I like the weeks leading up to Christmas about as much as I like the actual day. It was all worthwhile, and we did have a wonderful holiday!
Graham has adjusted so very well!...much better than we could ever have imagined! We are awaiting results from an EEG, and we are seeing a pediatric cardiologist next week. He loves his brothers, and he knows John and I are "mama" and "dadada"! I just love him, and I am so glad that God saw fit to make us his family!
Homeschooling John Isaac and Jeffery has gone well this year. They are reading well for their age, and they are interested in new words, spelling, and silliness! We are experiencing some period of adjustment with the arrival of a new little brother, but things are still going well.
John and I have recently decided to move toward Louisville. John has made the plea that we not live in Jefferson county. Though I would love to be there, I am just so excited that we will be moving closer. We are hoping to be in Mt. Washington, Taylorsville, or Bardstown. Each of those locations is around 30 minutes from my mom and dad. They are also "on the way" in the case that John decides to go back to school. He loves school, and I love him!
I am so completely emotional about this move. It is something that I have wanted for such a very long time! I remember, before John and I were engaged, he took me to Tom's Grill in Murray one night on a date. While sitting there, we began to talk about the "what ifs" of marriage. John was feeling me out a bit about whether or not I would be in for such an adventure. He made humble promises, we laughed, and enjoyed our time together. I remember throwing in a caveat...half joking, half serious...I told him I could absolutely be all in so long as we lived in Louisville. With absolutely no hesitation he said we could, and that was that! Within a week, he was on one knee, on the steps of Pogue Library, shaking as if he were worried that I might say no.
God has taught us so much about each other, ourselves, and Himself along the way. I know that we have so much more to learn! I find myself so very thankful for John. We are seriously all in! He has kept his humble promises, he still makes me laugh, and I still enjoy spending time with him. Now as then, he is my very best friend. He was crazy to worry!
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Graham
I have been such a terrible blogger! We have just been so busy this summer!


Last month we received a referral for a 14 month old little boy! His medical issues appear to be mild. He seems to be doing well considering his rough start, and he is participating in a great program which should help him bond more readily with us once he is home.
He's just beautiful! Due to the fact that we are not supposed to share photos of him yet, I have placed a heart over his facial features. Trust me, though....he's a cutie!!!
We expect to travel in October if all of our paperwork moves smoothly. Please pray to this end! I am super-excited to meet him and welcome him home!
Monday, May 30, 2011
Since the kids are asleep, I thought I would preview Toy Story 3. My boys just love Buzz and Woody! However, I have to conclude, if I were a kid, I would think this movie is stinkin' horrifying.
It's one thing not to meet the handsome prince or to need to make it to the big race. It's completely another to be held against your will for almost the whole movie, and nearly burned alive for attempting to escape. Seriously! Poor Jessie looks at her little plastic hand as it is beginning to melt. Name calling and degrading language are used throughout the film. At times Disney will clothe such talk in a sing-song fashion. Even this attempt to mark fanciful pretend is missing. Obviously, my children will not be seeing this movie.
The goal of the villian in this film is to hurt other toys to save himself. To this end, the other toys are abused, manipulated, held against their will, and seen as altogether worthless. I hardly think that Disney/Pixar would portray such abuse of a character represented by a "person". Do they really think that kids won't identify with Buzz and Woody? Any little boy who has ever seen Toy Story wants to be Buzz or Woody as much as any little girl wants to be a Disney Princess. Can you imagine Cinderella (after being told she is an unloved, worthless, idiot) beginning to scream from painful burning sensations as she is overcome with the immense heat from the fire, only to be rescued just in time? I don't think so.
What is going on with kids movies? Really...Rio, a movie for kids about breeding containing all sorts of inappropriate sexual content? AAAAHHHHH!!!!!
John Isaac, sweet and sensitive as he is, cried the first time he saw "Tangled" because Mother Gothel was so mean. Mean, selfish behavior happens. It is necessary to some extent to identify the villain.
Torture/physical abuse, verbal degrading, and reproductive issues all exist in the real world too. I get that. I just don't understand why these themes are seen in movies, supposedly made for young children.
Tuesday, May 10, 2011
What We've Been Doing Lately...
We have been super-busy over the past couple of weeks!







John Isaac has taken up drumming.
He's really intense and very cute!

We recently visited Frankfort. Look at those sweet pink toes!!!

Those are some SERIOUSLY doting grandparents!

My baby likes Mercy too!

John Isaac and I attended a birthday party for my
dear friend, Sarah Beth. He had lots of fun playing
with the other boys and girls on the farm.

This is my sweet friend, and this is her sweet birthday cake.
Sunday, April 17, 2011
This past week was super busy!
We had much to celebrate and lots of fun as well!

The boys love to read books!
I can't wait...soon they'll be able to read books to us!

Memaw and Papa came to our home for a
visit this week. Greggy loves his Memaw!!!
I think it's because she ABSOLUTELY spoils him!

We celebrated "Adoption Day" this week!
As always, I became quite emotional and thoughtful
when considering the many children in Guatemala
who are unable to be adopted.

On Saturday, John took Greggy to the doughnut
shop, and he allowed Greg to make the selections.
He was so excited to report that he found
doughnuts with "spinkles"! I made
Zuppa Toscana later that day.
It was delicious!!!

We also went to Murray this weekend!
We were able to visit for a little while with Great Grandaddy
and Great Grandmother Murray. Later that evening,
we watched Kristen perform in "Mulan" at the
Playhouse in the Park. It was a great show!
Our whole family had a really wonderful time!
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