By the time that we had made our request, those three children were already blocked from the list by families from another agency. I have to tell you that my disappointed approached the disappointment that I used to feel at taking negative pregnancy tests month after month. I cried, I fumed. John as always was calm and reassuring. Goodness, I love that man!
I decided that I couldn't go to bed without reporting my frustrations to our case manager. This is not the first month that something like this has happened to us, and I expressed to her that we do not feel that we could possibly have looked over the list any quicker than we have been.
She was so kind in her response, and we received an e-mail yesterday letting us know that the procedure will be changed!!! I am so glad. I have come to feel quite a bit of anxiety about looking over the monthly lists. From now on, we will hopefully receive one referral per month until such time as we are able accept a referral. I am thinking that this new method makes it more likely that we will be adopting another boy, but we'll see.
I could not be more pleased with this change in our process! Please be praying, praying for wisdom for John and I. We have had to decline a child once so far in this process, and it was truly heartbreaking.






